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Everyone's lists of impressive things they've accomplished this year poke at my insecurities around productivity, success, and acceptance from others. So! Here's my list of not-particularly-amazing things I did in 2018: 1. I was with my dad in his last days, hours, and moments in this realm, and I was with his body after his spirit moved into Whatever Comes Next. I'm proud of the commitment, care, and strength I demonstrated during an incredibly devastating and emotional time. 2. I faithfully attended therapy and processed all kinds of shit. 3. I started cooking more, and eating in a way that my body seems to like. I'm shifting my relationship with food, little by little. 4. I survived grief. 5. I managed to continue running my business while grieving. This is a fucking miracle, if there ever was one. 6. I'm less freaked out about money, even though my financial situation hasn't changed. I'm more at peace with the ebb and flow of income, as an entrepreneur. 7. I'm stepping more confidently into what I want to offer, in my business: I'm ready to work with white women on understanding, identifying, and interrupting everyday white supremacy. I'm excited about doing this one-on-one and in groups (holler if you're interested!). 8. I spent a lot of time with my youngest niece and nephew, who I adore and am wildly invested in. 9. I've started reading more, and am looking forward to holding myself accountable to reading every day. 10. I like who I am. I'm living in integrity with my values, for the most part, and I feel good about the person I'm becoming. I'm excited to see how I'll grow and stretch in 2019. Loving you, no matter what you accomplished this year. #2018 #reflection #list #accomplishments #whatever #2019 #nye #newyears #new #year #same #me

I was really into Calico Critters. #christmas #santa #letter #childhood #memories #gifts #wishlist #calicocritters #xmas #christmasgifts #northpole

My mom was gifted this satsuma tangerine tree after my dad died, and it has blossomed, heavy with fruit, in winter. I like to think he had a hand in that. #family #death #parents #tangerine #tree #gift #winter #grief #holidays #solstice #december

@michelleobama was candid, clear-eyed, focused, and hilarious. Awed by her everything. #forevercrush #goals #foreverfirstlady #publicallies #pasv #iambecoming #sanjose

Podcast episodes + virtual study group + regular calls to action for white people = the Seeing White Study Group. Thursday afternoons, starting next month. Click that ol' bio link for more info. #whiteness #study #group #podcast #reflection #action #antiracism #learning #history #present #impact #community

Looking cute; thought you should know. #selfie #reclaim #vanity #selflove #selfemployed #lottaself #cute #oakland #thankgoodnessforcommunity

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